One Very Big Heart: Being an Israeli Student in a Jewish Diaspora School

Tzuria Roichman

Tzuria Roichman, Eighth Grade, RPRY, Edison, New Jersey

Very soon, an incredibly important, special and crazy period in my life will end, and I’ll return to my home, Israel. I came with my family to the United States in 2020 for five years because of my dad’s research work at Princeton. Staying in America for so long has given me a lot, but has also made me miss things, in a lot of different ways.

Learning a new language was very, very hard, especially because of Covid. The masks that covered our mouths made it very difficult to learn and understand. Learning a brand new language is supposed to take about half a year, and it took me two. But learning English was also extremely valuable. It’s a skill that I’ll have forever and that will help me a lot in my life, whether for high school or even for finding a job later on.

When I first arrived here, I was really excited and ready to start this new adventure. I would be lying, though, if I didn’t say that this excitement slowly faded with time. It was different from what I expected it to be—way more challenging. I was only ten years old, and it was a lot for me to handle. I was basically starting my life completely from scratch. I didn’t know anyone here, I didn’t know what was fine or not okay to say, nor did I know the different holidays here, like Thanksgiving! In order to go through all of that, I had to become stronger and more mature. Today, I am so grateful for having the ability to get through difficult moments here.

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In the time that I have been here in the United States, I have been able to become part of a very different lifestyle and culture. The way people interact with each other here is very different from Israeli behavior. For example, Israelis say what’s on their mind more than Americans, and in Israel, kids have more freedom because it’s a smaller region. But seeing and knowing this different, American lifestyle is really entertaining. Acquiring the skill of getting used to a variety of different people and different norms has been so helpful. 

I have made so many amazing friends here, and built so many deep connections with people that I know I wouldn’t have in Israel. It’s so special. I know that the friends I’ve made here, I’ll have forever, and we’ll always remember each other. It feels good to know that I’ll always be able to offer them my house when they come to visit Israel. If any of them decide to make aliyah because of me, I would be so proud.

The wonders I’ve seen here are things I will never forget. For example, my family went on a road trip for a month. We went to so many national parks, like Yellowstone and more, that allowed me to appreciate nature and America so much. All of the gorgeous hikes and the great memories we made will follow me forever. These are the kinds of moments that made the time here worth it so much. 

Over these five years, I’ve gotten so much closer to my family. If we were in Israel, every holiday would be hosted at one of my grandparents’ or friends’ houses, and here, we have been together more. We all went through a similar journey, and it has bonded us so much more.

I have realized that people here appreciate Israel so much, maybe even more than we do. The connection American Jews have with Israel really surprised and inspired me. Before I came here, I didn’t even think about the fact that there are so many Jews out of Israel that think about our nation so much, and do so many things to celebrate it. For example, at my school here, we participated in a project called “Peace of Mind,” and soldiers from Israel came to talk to us. Also, on holidays, we have had so many projects and games to enhance our celebrations.

Coming here proved to me first-hand that all Jews really have one heart, one very big heart, that is filled with chesed and kindness.

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I miss my family and friends in Israel so much, and it’s been hard to try to stay in touch for so many years. I do have a few friends that I still text and talk to, but with time, it has gotten harder. That really is the hardest part of moving away for so long: not seeing all of the people that you love so much, and losing some good friends along the way.

I am so eagerly awaiting going back to Israel. It is really the moment that I have been waiting for the past five years. I am also scared, because I know that I’ll have to get used to another school and new friends, and leave behind all of the ones I made here, without knowing when I’ll see them again. 

Writing this reflective article has allowed me to recognize just how many memories I have collected from this beautiful place, and how many lifelong friends I have truly made. 

And going back, so soon, I’ll take all of that with me.

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